attention seekers..

"we need food, we need attention"
-tohru honda, fruit basket.



that previous saying was from a cartoon anime that i've watched a long time ago, and it got stuck in my mind, it was so honest, so real, yes we do need attention like we need water, like we need air, even the simplest of people need attention, we cant survive alone, we need people to look at us, to notice us, even if they dont understand us, or even dont love us, we need to feel that someones care, that were mentioned. lately i found that to some people their need of attention outclassed all their other needs, it became their one and only obsession, yes its an epidemic, just look at facebook and twitter? OH MY GOD! what is that? people are showing everything, everything, there's no privet life any more, twitter? is it now cool having people follow you in everything you do? is it now cool being stalked? or even being the stalker? and here i thought it was bad manner, but what do i know, seriously, even celebrities are having there own twitter, i thought they hated paparazzi and they hated being followed? hypocrisy? maybe..

dont get me wrong its not that i never update my facebook status or never wrote on a friend wall, yet again i never posted picture of my toes, and didn't show photos of every corner in my house, i dont belive that there are lines we shouldn't cross, or we should have limits, but its not the case of limits or lines here, its the case of being ridiculous. many youtubers that i used to admire are now posting thing they call Vlogs, its a video blogs, they video tape their normal life and post it online, just simple things like driving to the post office, simply rubbish! why would anyone wants to see someone else's life instead of living their own? its like watching someone eating an ice-cream, instead of going out and getting yourself one. well i want my own ice-cream, and i wont share!!

i can go on for hours but i'm dizzy now,
maybe i'll write more tomorrow,
and maybe i wont..

men vs. women

who's better men or women?
who's smarter men or women?
who's stronger men or wome?
men or women?
men or women?
men or women?

almost everyday i hear those questions, perhaps you too have heard them, in schools, at work, in family gatherings, in the internet, between men, between womens, between teenagers, even kids.. but does it realy matter who's better? realy? maybe it does to certain people who need to believe that thay are better than the opposite sex, thats why they participate in this debate, and some people are positive that they're better that's why they dont even bother to argue.
and then comes me.. of course me..
i think there is no way we can compare between men and women, we are so different in our own way, in our own strength, and i'm not going to give examples because it'll be stupid of me to do, why cant we Celebrate our uniqueness? we often hear women telling men that they cant do their job, and even theres movies based on that, but come on, did we get to a very low level that we even talk about this? what happend to being individual? and NOT comparing ourselves with others? when people fail to prove their point in this argument and of course they will, they tend to say that we all are gods creature and we are all the same in gods eyes, and in society, and we all have the same rights and Responsibilities ,WHAT THE .. ? i dont want to be the same! with men and with any other woman! why cant we all stand up and say "i am different, and i refuse to be compared with anyone", lets forget men and women now, lets widen the web, dont we all want to be different? and unique? why is it in all the high schools movies the person that is different than the rest is always the loser? and once he or she dresses like the rest and talks like the rest and have the same 'normal' intrests he's welcome to join the rest? why is it wrong to be different?

5/6/2010

11:07 am