men vs. women

who's better men or women?
who's smarter men or women?
who's stronger men or wome?
men or women?
men or women?
men or women?

almost everyday i hear those questions, perhaps you too have heard them, in schools, at work, in family gatherings, in the internet, between men, between womens, between teenagers, even kids.. but does it realy matter who's better? realy? maybe it does to certain people who need to believe that thay are better than the opposite sex, thats why they participate in this debate, and some people are positive that they're better that's why they dont even bother to argue.
and then comes me.. of course me..
i think there is no way we can compare between men and women, we are so different in our own way, in our own strength, and i'm not going to give examples because it'll be stupid of me to do, why cant we Celebrate our uniqueness? we often hear women telling men that they cant do their job, and even theres movies based on that, but come on, did we get to a very low level that we even talk about this? what happend to being individual? and NOT comparing ourselves with others? when people fail to prove their point in this argument and of course they will, they tend to say that we all are gods creature and we are all the same in gods eyes, and in society, and we all have the same rights and Responsibilities ,WHAT THE .. ? i dont want to be the same! with men and with any other woman! why cant we all stand up and say "i am different, and i refuse to be compared with anyone", lets forget men and women now, lets widen the web, dont we all want to be different? and unique? why is it in all the high schools movies the person that is different than the rest is always the loser? and once he or she dresses like the rest and talks like the rest and have the same 'normal' intrests he's welcome to join the rest? why is it wrong to be different?

5/6/2010

11:07 am